Trauma disclosure is not intimacy. It’s information. And information creates leverage. In this episode, Meaghan breaks down why sharing your trauma too early in dating isn’t honesty or healing - it’s a nervous system bid for safety that quietly collapses power, polarity, and discernment.

You’ll learn why emotionally healthy men don’t need your story to treat you well, how oversharing creates false intimacy, and what earned safety actually looks like before vulnerability is placed. This is about pacing, protection, and sovereignty,  not secrecy.

If you’re done handing people the blueprint to hurt you and ready to date from self-trust instead of survival, this episode is required listening.

Black Cat Academy is where women learn how to date with power, restraint, and discernment  without overexplaining, oversharing, or abandoning themselves.

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