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Episode Summary

Ever looked at a photo of yourself and felt that sinking feeling—“That doesn’t even look like me”? Or worse, felt a wave of judgment that had nothing to do with how you look—and everything to do with how you feel?

In this episode, we’re talking about why being photographed feels so vulnerable—and how to begin taking your confidence back.

This isn’t about filters, posing, or camera tricks. It’s about visibility. It's about the emotional weight that shows up when you’re truly seen. Whether you're building a personal brand or just learning to stop hiding, this quick episode is here to help you understand what’s really behind that hesitation and how to work through it with kindness and clarity.

Timestamps

00:00 – Why “I don’t like photos of myself” goes deeper than we think
00:52 – The hidden judgment women carry about being seen
01:45 – Why it’s not vanity—it’s self-respect
02:20 – A mindset shift for the next time you're in front of the camera
02:47 – Free resources to help you build confidence on camera

Key Takeaways

• Being photographed isn’t about appearance—it’s about visibility. Feeling exposed in front of a camera is a valid emotional response, especially for women who’ve been judged more for how they look than what they do.
• It’s not vanity to want to like your photos. It’s about letting the outside reflect the strength, work, and growth happening inside.
• You’re not broken if the camera makes you nervous. It means you’re human—and it’s possible to build confidence through awareness and small shifts.
• People don’t want perfect. They want real. Let them see the light in your eyes and the truth in your posture.
• You have the right to be seen exactly as you are—or who you're becoming. Every photo is a chance to reclaim that.

Call to Action

Want to build confidence on camera and elevate your personal brand?

Grab one (or all) of my free resources to help you show up with clarity, ease, and authenticity:
✔️ Quick Tips for Social Media Portraits
✔️ Natural Light Cheat Sheet
✔️ Strike a Pose Guide
✔️ 30 Days of Personal Brand Prompts

Looking for more in-depth support?
✔️ Watch my pre-recorded course: Show Up Confidently on Camera

Have questions or want to work together?
✔️ Reach out here: www.jamapantel.com/contact

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