No More Breadcrumbs Podcast: A Christian Podcast for Women Healing From Toxic Love + Reclaiming Their Identity

Why You Keep Attracting Emotionaly Unavailable Men (Even Though You Want Real Love)

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You know what to do — but your heart keeps getting stuck in the same pattern. 

Because emotionally unavailable love feels familiar — not because it’s good, but because it's known. That magnetic pull? You've been trained to chase what's unpredictable. 

In this episode of No More Breadcrumbs, we dive into: 

  • Why your nervous system craves what feels like home – even if he can’t give you real intimacy
  • How believing you're not enough rewires love to look like effort, not rest
  • Why your body sometimes chooses pain over peace — trauma mislabels danger as "connection"
  • What Jesus actually says about your worth — that you're chosen, whole, and loved
  • How to rewire your self-concept and open your heart to safe, real love


    • You’re not broken. You’re not unfixable. You’ve just been playing by a distorted playbook — and it’s time to rewrite it.
     
    👇 Ready to break the cycle once and for all?
     
    🔗 Take the Love Identity Quiz – find out why you keep attracting what you don’t want, and how to shift that pattern fast
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     🔗 Join Rewritten – a Christ-centred journey to rebuild your identity and receive real, lasting love

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    No More Breadcrumbs Podcast: A Christian Podcast for Women Healing From Toxic Love + Reclaiming Their IdentityBy Kim Velez