Why do we keep chasing people who don’t choose us — even when we know better?

In this powerful, soul-baring episode of The Femme Cast, I break down the emotional addiction behind chasing emotionally unavailable partners — and why breaking free from this cycle feels so hard. Drawing from my own experience during a 7-year relationship hiatus, I share how I treated chasing like an addiction… and how this one shift changed everything.

This episode is for the woman who’s tired of begging, convincing, or shrinking herself to be chosen — and is ready to choose herself instead.

Inside, we dive into:

• The emotional voids we try to fill through unavailable partners
• The two questions that helped me stop chasing and start healing
• Why chasing others only makes them run — and what actually makes you magnetic
• The difference between codependent needs vs. healthy relationship desires
• The runner-chaser dynamic and how it’s playing out in your texts, your thoughts, and your energy
• The raw, messy truth about how I stopped outsourcing my worth to men who couldn’t meet me

We also explore what it really means to become the center of your own life — not in a selfish way, but in a self-honoring way. This is the work that helped me call back the parts of myself I had abandoned for love that wasn’t real, and finally make space for love that truly is.

If you’ve ever felt stuck in the loop of performing, proving, and overgiving — this episode is your mirror, your permission slip, and your first step out.

🎧 Listen now to reclaim your energy, shift the dynamic, and attract love that chooses you without the chase.

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