Life Engineering

Why You Keep Repeating the Same Relationship Even After Doing the Work | Riana Malia


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Do you feel like you're almost there in your life or relationships... but not quite?

What if the reason your life and especially your relationships still feel misaligned...is not because you haven't done enough work... but because you're still operating from an outdated identity?

In this powerful conversation, I get to chat with integrative neuro-somatic practitioner Riana Malia to unpack one of the most misunderstood concepts in personal growth:

Course correction doesn't start with changing your life.

It starts with changing your internal architecture.

Even high-achieving, self-aware individuals, those who have done therapy, read the books, and committed to growth, often find themselves asking:

"Why does love still feel like the one place that isn't aligned?"

This episode reveals why.


In This Episode, You'll Discover:

  • Why you can do years of personal development... and still repeat the same relationship patterns
  • How your subconscious identity (formed between ages 0–7) is still running your decisions today
  • The difference between thinking you're choosing... and actually choosing from freedom
  • Why clarity not effort is what most people are missing
  • The "Clear → Create → Claim" process to shift identity at the root
  • A powerful 72-hour exercise to rewire your thinking and shift your reality fast


📌 Riana Malia

Riana Malia is a Board-Certified Neuro-somatic

Practitioner and the creator of the Clear to Create

Method™, a transformational process that helps high-achieving women clear emotional patterns, reclaim their identity, and finally create love that matches the life they've built.

She's the founder of The Brilliance Brunch™ in the Bay Area, and the creator of Magnet for Miracles™, a 72-hour breakthrough experience for women ready to release the emotional weight they've carried for decades. Through intimate intensives, live events, and media appearances, Riana helps women rise into their brilliance, not by doing more, but by becoming more of who they truly are.


Connect with Riana Malia

  • Social: @rianamalia
  • Website: https://rianamalia.com/
  • Email: [email protected]
  • The Extraordinary Love Index™ (E.L.I.™) Assessment (https://quiz.rianamalia.com/)


Gabriela Embon – Speaker – Author – Life Engineering Coach

Website: https://gabrielaembon.com/

Email: [email protected]

Becoming a Power Couple – 4 Pillars to Engineer Legendary Marriages Book: https://gabrielaembon.com/book/

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