Are you stuck googling things like “why am I attracted to emotionally unavailable men,” “why won’t he choose me,” or “why do I keep attracting toxic relationships?” You’re not alone.

In this episode, we break down:

Why your brain and nervous system keep pulling you toward familiar pain (neuroscience + trauma wiring).

How self-concept and low self-esteem cause you to settle for less than God’s best.

What “breadcrumbing” and “trauma bonding” really mean, and how to break the cycle.

A powerful practice where you ask God: “How do You see me? What do You want me to know about my worthiness?”

Practical tools to rewire your thoughts, reset your nervous system, and start embodying the truth: You are already chosen and beloved.

💡 Whether you’ve searched “how to get him to commit,” “how to manifest love,” or “how to rewire negative thoughts,” this episode will help you stop chasing, stop settling, and start believing you are enough in Christ.

👉 For deeper support:

Rewritten (self-paced course): Heal your self-concept, rewire old patterns, and build a new love identity. Learn More Here

The Healing Room (live coaching): Join other Christian women healing unworthiness, rewiring their nervous system, and anchoring their worth in Jesus. Learn More Here

Topics Covered:

why am I attracted to emotionally unavailable men

why won’t he choose me

why won’t he commit

breadcrumbing in relationships

trauma bonding love

how to manifest love as a Christian woman

rewire your nervous system for love

self-concept in love

Christian women podcast

feeling not good enough for love