Is your marriage built on your new household rules, or are generational expectations running the show? In the twenty-first episode, James Wong and Hazelle Teo dive into the sticky, complex world of managing in-law dynamics and setting firm boundaries right after tying the knot. 

 

This candid sharing session addresses real-world boundary struggles, from the anxiety of giving parents unannounced access via spare house keys to the domestic horror stories of couples waiting for their BTO flats while living under an in-law’s roof. James and Hazelle break down practical survival strategies, such as James's double-reunion dinner compromise and the "Shield Script”, a polite but firm linguistic tool used to deflect intrusive relative inquiries about baby timelines and income. This episode serves as an essential guide to establishing your own family traditions, ensuring that while you respect extended family with empathy, your partnership remains a completely non-negotiable unit.

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