This sounds selfish I know, but when you're in a relationship, it's so easy to blame the other person and want them to change. But if we want anything in our life to change - it starts with us. In any relationship - with kids, partners, parents, friends, at work, at home, anywhere... the situation will change when we change. So whilst it's nice to think prioritising someone else is a good and generous thing to do, the BEST thing we can do in life - is put ourselves first!