One camp says you should shout your goals from the rooftops for all to hear.

The other side says you should keep them private and to yourself - letting your results speak for you.

Arguments as to why you shouldn't share your personal goals with others:

If you talk about your goals all the time, you can get the "high" of success without ever actually doing anything. An example would be the guy who loves how cool it makes him feel to talk about how he is an artist, entrepreneur, or whatever, but never actually produces anything.

When you let other people in on your plans, changing direction or experiencing failure can seem more painful or difficult. If you keep it to yourself you'll be able to work through challenges and changes without dealing with anyone else's expectations.

Other people can often have opinions that can create doubt or confusion and ultimately hold you back.

Arguments for why you SHOULD share your personal goals with others

If you tell people your goals, you have extra accountability. When you make a commitment in front of others, you are essentially tapping into motivation by putting your reputation up for collateral.

In talking to others, you have the opportunity to work out your plans with the feedback of others and potentially grab some good ideas.

By talking as someone who is going to do something, it helps you internalize that action as a part of your identity (assuming you actually follow through).

I see the value in both perspectives, and so not surprisingly, my opinion is somewhat down the middle:

Share your goals to the extent you are certain about you sticking with and accomplishing them

Only share with a small group of people who you trust

Don't just tell them once, maintain rapport and accountability to talk through challenges, failures and changes of direction

UYAP! (Unleash Your Apex Potential)

Mark Queppet

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