Your Bumble profile says "no kids, no debt, no drama", but what if you’re bringing a bag of unhealed trauma and emotional unavailability to the table?In this episode of Every Shade, Nina rants about the "No Baggage" delusion. We explore why 'visible baggage' (kids, debt, illness) might actually be a safer bet than the 'invisible' baggage people - the ones with mommy issues and avoidant tendencies who ruin your life quietly.In this episode, you’ll learn: * How to suss out whose baggage is actually worth your time.* Why "No Kids" is the wrong requirement for your dating app filter.* The uncomfortable lies we tell ourselves about our own "clean" history.DISCLAIMER: It’s a rant. I am not a licensed therapist. Enjoy with discretion.Until next time, it’s Every Shade.#datingadvice #relationshipgoals #baggage #selfawareness #everyshadeInstagram: @ninaatimah

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