What if I told you that the pattern you call “bad luck in love” is actually a trauma response in disguise?

In this soul-baring episode of The Femme Cast, I take you into the raw, unfiltered moment that shattered my illusions about love — the night I found myself on the floor, begging someone to love me. Not because he was worth it. But because, deep down, I still believed I wasn’t.

What followed was a soul-awakening — a brutal and beautiful unraveling of every belief I had about love, worth, and who I thought I needed to be to be chosen.

Inside this episode, we explore:

• Why you keep chasing emotionally unavailable people — and the surprising dopamine addiction that makes it feel like love
• How this pattern is a sophisticated trauma response designed to protect you from the deeper pain of feeling unworthy
• How your parents (even the ones who “did their best”) shaped your beliefs about what love looks and feels like
• The childhood wounds that make unavailable love feel safe — and the real reason you can’t stop going back
• How to break the cycle by facing the parts of yourself you’ve been running from (and finally reclaim your power)

This isn’t just about romantic relationships. It’s about every place in your life where you’ve outsourced your worth, silenced your truth, and begged to be chosen — instead of choosing yourself.

Because the moment you stop chasing love that only sees half of you… is the moment you become magnetic to love that stays.

This episode is your mirror. Your permission slip. Your turning point.

If you’ve ever felt addicted to the pain of almost-love, this one will crack you wide open — in the best possible way.

Tap play. Let’s go there.

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