In what's usually a very planned out episode of the That's What We Said Podcast, Jen and Nicole decide to switch things up a bit and take to winging it throughout the whole podcast.  They talk through saying yes more in life and not feeling like they need to plan everything - also not caring so much when you do something.  However, they do call out that every now and again that laissez fair attitude leads to a bad decision. In addition, Cutlers Cuts are back as he hits the Nashville dating scene and some first NFL observations are provided.  Spoiler: Nicole took the Bills loss really hard.