As a wife and mom, you know you are winning when:

You make the successful transfer of a sleeping baby from your arms to the crib.

When the black marker scribbles all over the couch AREN’T Sharpie.

When your husband tells you your hair looks cute.

When the poo’s firm enough to plop in the toilet and do a one wipe jobber. Etc.

These “wins” are precious, not because they make life easier, though that is appreciated, but because they remind us that the “powers that be,” are pulling for us not only to make it through this, but to have joy in its midst. Arguably, though, these wins could be considered so minor that you wouldn’t recognize them unless you’re actively looking. Right?

Exactly. And in that tiny crevice in your consciousness lies the choice.

Article by Malcolm Gladwell: https://genius.com/Malcolm-gladwell-the-naked-face-annotated

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