By Karen Stubbs
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Today, DeDe Wilbanks joins us to explore how we can set healthy boundaries around the technology in our homes. With John 10:10 as our guide, DeDe reminds us of our God-given role to protect our children's hearts and minds from the addictive nature of technology. While we can't control everything, we can be intentional about setting limits that nurture our families, trusting God with the rest.
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Scripture for Reflection:
John 10:10 (NIV) "The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy; I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full.”
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Election Day can bring a lot of uncertainty and even fear into our lives. Today, Karen and Emily remind us to keep our focus on God, no matter who ends up in the White House. They encourage us to pray for our leaders and show us how to foster peace, especially if our families are divided on political views. Karen shares powerful biblical truths to help us navigate the ups and downs of the election season with faith and grace, reminding us that our hope is always in Christ and that we are citizens of heaven.
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7:12 How should Christians approach political elections?
10:20 What does Jesus say about engaging with governments and politics?
13:04 Daniel 2:21 says God “deposes kings and raises up others”
14:30 We have to focus our eyes on God and not our circumstances
15:45 Go vote! And also, pray for our leaders
17:45 Look at the story of Nebuchadnezzer, God can turn the hearts of evil leaders
20:39 We can have different opinions and still love one another
21:58 Your children are watching you
Scripture for Reflection:
Romans 13:1 (NIV) "Let everyone be subject to the governing authorities, for there is no authority except that which God has established. The authorities that exist have been established by God."
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“You just have to last one second longer…” If you are constantly fighting discipline battles these days, we hope those words stay with you long after this episode! In this conversation, Karen tackles questions about disciplining your younger children. From chaos in the car, to rough play, to bad behavior that only happens at school, Karen offers practical advice for finding consequences that work for your child.
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6:37 My four year old is constantly getting in trouble at school - what can we do?
12:30 Car rides are the worst! How can I stop the cycle of craziness?
17:00 You just have to last one second longer than they do!
18:25 My son plays too rough at school - does he need therapy?
21:30 How do I know which things are discipline worthy and which things I should let go?
27:18 My son gets really angry- we don’t want to punish him for feeling emotions, but know we need to find ways to help him regulate, any advice?
Scripture for Reflection:
Proverbs 29:17 (NIV) “Discipline your children, and they will give you peace; they will bring you the delights you desire.”
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Are your kids’ personalities shaped by their birth order? In today’s episode, Karen and Emily explore how birth order influences personality. They share insights from their own families and tackle questions like, “How do I help my oldest think of others before herself?” and “How can I teach my daughter to let go of things without holding on to everything?” Plus, Emily talks about how she’s using the BOAW Moms app to keep up with studies and episodes!
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2:00 Emily is loving using the BOAW Moms app to watch studies and look up podcast episodes
3:45 Karen and Emily share how their personalities were shaped by their birth order
7:13 Is it possible to avoid reinforcing birth order stereotypes as a parent?
10:25 How do I help my 5 year old let go of things? She wants to hold onto all the things!
15:24 How do I help my oldest daughter think of others before herself?
20:45 How do I help nurture my daughter’s kindness?
24:50 Send in your question on the app using the “Ask Karen” section
Scripture for Reflection:
Galatians 6:9 (NASB) “Let us not lose heart in doing good, for in due time we will reap if we do not grow weary.”
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“There is nothing that beats conversation with our kids.” Today we’re chatting with Erin Mashaw about the new book she co-authored, A Student’s Guide to Sexual Integrity. We touch on purity culture, pornography, and the constantly shifting cultural values around us. Erin shared the importance of having small conversations early and often and offered practical tips for getting over the awkwardness! Our hope is that you will be encouraged to engage in new conversations this week in your home and feel equipped that YOU are the best source of information for your child. Psst - pop some earbuds in for this one!
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Scripture for Reflection:
Deuteronomy 11:18-19 (NIV): “Fix these words of mine in your hearts and minds; tie them as symbols on your hands and bind them on your foreheads. Teach them to your children, talking about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up.”
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When your kids are little, the challenges of day-to-day parenting often pit one spouse against another. Today Karen and Emily are answering questions from weary moms. They discuss practical ways you can connect with your spouse, strategies for handling the stress that comes with parenting young children, and remind us of the importance of prioritizing our husband’s needs during this season of life.
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4:50 BIG announcement coming later this month - get the app to be the first to know
10:45 How do we find time to connect as spouses with 3 little kids at home?
15:05: Help! My 3 yr old twins are pitting us against one another!
17:14 Our marriage is struggling! We need help.
22:20 Ask your spouse: what is one way I can love you better this month?
25:20 I want to move back to where my family lives. What do you think we should do?
Scripture for Reflection:
Mark 10:9 (NIV): “Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate.”
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Understanding how your child is wired can be a key to resolving conflict in your home! In today's episode, Karen dives into the dynamics of family conflict and emphasizes how important it is to recognize your child's personality type. By taking the time to understand their unique traits, we can cultivate patience and empathy in our relationships. Join us as we explore practical ways to bear with one another instead of butting heads!
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6:08 I’m worried about my 9 yr old son’s lack of sociability…should I be?
9:05 My daughter and I are constantly butting heads! Help!
12:15 What are the four core needs of the Red personality?
14:08 How did your husband being away for so long affect your children and the home?
18:32 My 1st grade daughter’s social awkwardness is affecting her relationships, what can I do?
Scripture for Reflection:
Ephesians 4:2 (NIV): Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love.
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Today we’re diving into the idea of being a countercultural parent. Join us as Karen shares how important it is to parent in a way that aligns with God’s will instead of seeking the approval of others. From practical tips on renewing your mind to choosing God as your guiding “North Star,” Karen offers encouragement to moms who may feel out of step with the world – but exactly in step with God’s design.
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3:51 Karen shares about her newest curriculum, The Counter Intuitive Parent
8:36 How have you seen parenting trends/choices change over the years?
11:38 Were you always countercultural as a parent or did you change as you realized you needed to parent differently from the world?
16:25 What worldly patterns do you see affecting families right now?
19:05 What can a mom do today to renew her mind?
23:00 God is our “North Star” as believers
26:30 There is a lot on the horizon for BOAW Moms this year!
Scripture for Reflection:
Romans 12:2 (NIV) – "Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will.”
Galatians 1:10 (NIV) - “Am I now trying to win the approval of human beings, or of God? Or am I trying to please people? If I were still trying to please people, I would not be a servant of Christ.”
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Today Karen is answering questions from moms whose kids are in college or working and living on their own for the first time. She shares how to support them without enabling them, how to gently guide them toward wise-decision making, and how to encourage them toward maturity while simultaneously stepping back. She also reminds us that now, more than ever, is the time to get on your knees and PRAY for your kids! Moms, this season is hard, but the fruit of these years is worth the investment of time and energy.
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3:41 How do I help my college-age daughter who is already struggling with time management while she’s away? She’s calling me in tears weekly!
8:00 I feel like my son is growing apart from us as a young adult living in another state. Is this normal? How can I adjust my mindset?
13:02 My daughter calls me all the time about every little thing now that she’s living on her own. How can I help her be more confident in her decision making?
17:18 I think my son could be classified as “failure to launch” at this point in time. How can I get him to think about his future seriously?!
Scripture for Reflection:
Philippians 1:9-10 (NIV) – "And this is my prayer: that your love may abound more and more in knowledge and depth of insight, so that you may be able to discern what is best and may be pure and blameless for the day of Christ."
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Literacy coach Welsley Jongko joins us in the studio today to talk about the process of learning to read and to encourage those of us who have beginning readers at home! She explains the current reading crisis in America and the simple but effective things parents can do to support their children on their way to become lifelong readers. There are so many great tips and resources shared in the conversation today, be sure you check the links in today’s show notes!
Episode Recap:
2:11 Welsley is a literacy coach supporting teachers in the K-5 school system
4:00 Karen shares the story of Abby’s dyslexia diagnosis
7:56 Tips for parents who are already overwhelmed by the new school year
9:40 How can parents help foster a love of learning in their child?
12:12 Is there a difference between a late learner and a struggling reader?
16:00 What are the red flags your child is struggling to read?
23:08 Additional early signs of dyslexia
26:00 What is the problem with “whole language” instruction?
30:37 Tips and strategies for helping your beginning reader enjoy the process
34:15 More resources from Welsley Jongko on learning to read
Scripture for Reflection: Proverbs 3:13 (NIV)
“Blessed are those who find wisdom, those who gain understanding.”
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