**Forgiving What You Can’t Forget**

Forgiveness isn’t about forgetting the pain — it’s about choosing faith over bitterness. When the memories linger and the wounds still ache, trust that God can heal what feels too deep for you to reach.

*“Cast all your anxiety on Him because He cares for you.”* — 1 Peter 5:7

Through faith, God gives us the strength to release what weighs us down. Forgiveness is not forgetting — it’s trusting God to carry what we can’t.

We’re diving into a powerful question that can shift the course of your relationships and your walk with God: *Are you truly repentant, or just remorseful?* It's easy to feel bad after a mistake—to cry, apologize, and express guilt. But if nothing changes, if the behavior continues, was it really repentance—or just emotion? Remorse feels, but repentance transforms. So ask yourself: Is my sorrow leading me to God and lasting change, or just temporary relief? Let’s unpack the difference—and why it matters more than we often realize.

Role with me, just a rainy day talk session..

Today, we’re talking about something our souls crave but the world often misunderstands—true love. Not the kind built on conditions or feelings, but the kind that starts with God.

Because real love begins in Him—it’s patient, sacrificial, and unwavering. And to truly know that love, we have to do something bold: surrender. Let go of control, let go of fear, and trust that the One who created us also knows how to love us best.

So wherever you are—heartbroken, hopeful, or just searching—this episode is for you. Let’s lean in and discover what it really means to be fully known, fully loved, and fully surrendered to God.

This week I’ve received a word that I’ve questioned over and over again. What if what you want isn’t what God wants for you?

The story of Jacob, Leah and Rachel will be discussed. My personal relevance to it as well.

Let’s jump in..

At a certain point when we’ve taken too much we reach a point of exhaustion, we need peace, we need peace, we need separation. Let’s talk about it.

The **Refiner’s fire** is a powerful image of how God uses trials and pain to **purify and strengthen** us. Just as a metalworker uses intense heat to burn away impurities from gold or silver, God allows us to walk through difficult seasons—not to destroy us, but to **refine us**. In the fire, our pride, fear, and false comforts are stripped away, revealing a deeper faith and a more authentic character. Growth through pain isn’t easy, but it's often where the most transformation happens. It’s in the crushing that new strength is born, and in the breaking that God shapes us into who we’re truly meant to be. The process may hurt, but the purpose is holy.

Red flags are warning signs that can indicate potential problems in various areas of life. We often miss red flags in relationships because of psychological factors like wanting the relationship to work, denial, low self-esteem, a desire to overlook flaws, being blinded by initial attraction, or simply not recognizing unhealthy behaviors as red flags, leading individuals to rationalize or minimize concerning actions from others. Let’s talk about it.

Intro to season 4- Going into 2025 refreshed and rest e for more stretching with God at my center I’m going to just catch you up on where I’m at.

Part 2

If you were to ask anyone why do generations fail: the answer would look like : Relationships often fail due to a combination of factors like poor communication, lack of trust, incompatibility, differing priorities, lack of respect, inadequate intimacy, financial issues, personal insecurities, and sometimes, unresolved past traumas; essentially, when partners struggle to meet each other's needs and maintain healthy communication and emotional connection over time.

But I’m going to tackle this from a spiritual standpoint, so let’s lock in, I’ll talk you listen.