A 20-year-old seeks ad­vice on her re­la­tion­ship with her 27-year-old boyfriend, re­veal­ing that in­ti­ma­cy is not just painful but com­pound­ed by his boast­ing and re­fusal to ad­just. As com­menters clash over age gaps and re­spect, the con­sen­sus paints a grim pic­ture of im­ma­tu­ri­ty and mis­placed pride, leav­ing her fu­ture with him in doubt.