I bet you can't remember when you use to run about  even without a panty and your parents, siblings, uncles or Aunts would literally come running after you and do a lot of playful gymnastics just to get you to put your clothes on.  Eventually, the divide line became more visible. "You are a girl, sit right !", "You are a lady, you have to be in the kitchen." Then it became more intense, having to jump through cultural loops for being a woman, else the society shames you...or to use a more modern word: you are cancelled! How can women pull through under this weight, more so when the progenitors are not just men, but women as well ? Join me and my homegirl Hajara, tonight as she addresses some salient issues about women, culture and shame. Dive in.