How to be mean but if you and this man or having sex and nothing else he should and I hope you would know that your bills you should already have your shit together if you guys are not in a relationship no he should not help you financially unless he’s a sugar daddy yeah I got friends with benefits but if y’all just fuck buddies and nothing else they know he should not have to help you he already got his stuff together the only person Did not get their stuff off together is you