Jasmine: We are all about not curating what it means to be a working mom. We already have to curate what it means to be a black woman for you. We're not about to curate motherhood too, sorry.

Portia: We want to get as close to what it is as we can, and so this is an element where we feel comfortable sharing. And this is the hard part that I'm struggling with, because we felt like this was a safe spot; this is somewhere we can be really authentic with our children.