Amanda Maqabuka Gibe and Sinoxolo Nozozo discuss the importance of Working On Yourself before Saying I Do. Preparing for marriage is not about being a perfect wife but about learning to understand, love, and be kind to yourself. This self-care shapes how you will show up in your marriage, influencing how you relate to and support your spouse. Emphasizing personal growth and self-awareness before marriage helps build a stronger, healthier relationship foundation. Intimate Moments