Preacher: Jeremy Herbert

Text: Galatians 6:1-5

Theme: Peacemakers Follow A Biblical Pattern to Resolve Conflict

Notes:

I.     Motivation: How do I Glorify God and do good in this situation?

Our motives and methods must be biblical in order to glorify God and do good to others. 

 

II.     Examination: How can I show Jesus’ transforming work by taking responsibility for my part? Mt. 7:1-5

Peacemakers let love cover as much as they can. 

Peacemakers apply God’s Word to themselves first. Matthew 7:1-5 

Peacemakers admit when they are wrong.

                    1.     They are honest with themselves and others. 

                    2.     Eight A’s of genuine confession. 

Address everyone involved 

Avoid “if, but, and maybe” 

Admit specifically 

Acknowledge the hurt

Accept the consequences

Alter your behavior (Change your attitudes and actions)

Ask for forgiveness: this is an act of humility that shows real heart change. 

Allow time. People need time to process emotions. 

 

III.     Restoration: How can I lovingly serve others by helping them take the responsibility for their part?  Galatians 6:1–5

Be Compassionate. 

                    1.     Affirm the relationship: let them know you care and want reconciliation. 

                    2.     Listen well

                    3.     Speak truth in love: the words you say and the way you say it ought to communicate love. 

                    4.     Be patient. 

 

Be Constructive. 

                    1.     Be Truthful: speak the truth in love. be honest about the situation. Don’t exaggerate their wrong or your right. 

                    2.     Be Transparent: let them see your heart. 

                    3.     Talk in person whenever possible. Too much can be misunderstood in text and email. 

                    4.     Talk as peers. Don’t use come across as condescending or superior. We can inadvertently use God’s Word as a hammer to beat someone instead a scalpel to help them. 

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