WORSHIPPED

Hilary answers the question she gets asked most often: how to become a dominatrix. In this solo episode, she explores both the practical realities of entering dominatrix work and the deeper transformation that happens when a woman stops performing power and begins to embody it. Drawing from her own journey through certification, mentorship, early-session nerves, people pleasing, and nervous system regulation, Hilary shares why this work became about far more than technique. She explores feminine authority, self-worth, pleasure, boundaries, and reclaiming power, while introducing resources created for women who want greater safety, confidence, and embodiment on this path.

Takeaways:

Becoming a dominatrix is about more than scripts, outfits, or technique.

Embodied power comes from grounding, presence, nervous system regulation, and self-trust.

Safety, communication, client vetting, and mentorship are essential.

Dom work can reveal patterns of people pleasing, overgiving, and self-abandonment.

Feminine authority is something you can reclaim rather than perform.

The deeper work begins when you stop asking how to look powerful and explore what it feels like to embody your power.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Worshipped and the Dark Feminine Mission

00:35 The Question Hilary Gets Asked Most: How to Become a Dominatrix

01:25 Why Getting Started Can Be Difficult to Navigate

02:23 Books and Research That Informed Hilary’s Journey

03:24 Practical Training and the Deeper Work

05:40 Competition, Community, and Finding Mentorship

07:07 What Certification and Mentorship Can Teach You

09:03 How This Work Can Change Your Life

10:28 Introducing Divine Dom

11:19 Safety, Client Vetting, and Session Logistics

13:17 Hilary’s First-Session Nerves and People Pleasing

14:15 How Dom Work Revealed Old Patterns

16:14 Nervous Energy vs. Grounded Presence

17:55 Breathwork, Movement, and Regulating Before a Session

20:34 Performing Dom Energy Versus Embodying It

22:30 The Dominatrix as a Modern-Day Priestess

23:00 Moving Beyond Performance for the Male Gaze

24:52 Recognizing People Pleasing in Dom Work

26:13 Self-Worth and the Confidence to Claim Your Presence

27:15 What First Drew Hilary to Dominatrix Work

28:00 How Being Served Changed Hilary’s Sense of Value

29:25 Asking What You Truly Desire and What Brings You Pleasure

30:09 The Descent Into Deeper Self-Discovery

Resources:

Divine Domm3: A lived guide to the logistics, safety, and foundations of becoming a Dominatrix.

Domm3 101: A deeper exploration of the practice, embodiment, and skills behind Dominatrix work.

The Goddess Code: For women who want to cultivate self-worship, feminine power, pleasure, and the experience of feeling worshipped in everyday life.

keywords: dominatrix, how to become a dominatrix, Divine Dom, Dom 101, feminine power, embodied power, dark feminine, self-worth, nervous system regulation, people pleasing, feminine authority, self-worship, pleasure, embodiment, dominance, boundaries

Hilary reframes dominatrix work as more than performance, connecting it to self-worship, feminine power, and ancient temple priestess traditions. In this solo episode, she explains how reclaiming desire, sensuality, and worth can shift both personal relationships and the way women hold presence and power.She also shares how her own path moved from surface-level wanting to be served into a deeper spiritual framework she now teaches through her Goddess Code methodology.

• Hilary explains how her desire for men to be “on their knees” began as a personal longing to be served, valued, and worshipped
• She connects dominatrix work to spiritual embodiment, dark feminine energy, and ancient priestess wisdom
• In this episode: how years of self-abandonment, guilt, and prioritizing everyone else led to resentment and burnout
• She argues that desire is a roadmap to purpose, pleasure, abundance, and fulfillment
• In this episode: how patriarchal and religious conditioning taught women to shame their sensuality and treat it as sinful
• She describes temple priestesses as embodied women who held reverence, boundaries, and sacred space, not as passive or self-effacing figures
• In this episode: how the crone archetype and menopause reflect the wisdom women are meant to pass down across generations
• She contrasts the role of the dominatrix as a modern expression of temple priestess energy with the shallow version of BDSM as performance
• In this episode: why sensuality, when treated as sacred, becomes a source of abundance, magnetism, and personal alignment
• She introduces her Goddess Mythos as the methodology behind her programs, blending therapy, somatics, nervous system work, subconscious reprogramming, and feminine energetics

00:00 - Introducing Worshiped and the temple of the divine feminine
00:54 - How wanting men on their knees became the origin of her dominatrix path
01:36 - Why self-abandonment creates resentment and exhaustion
03:03 - Desire as a roadmap to pleasure, purpose, and abundance
04:25 - Fear of judgment keeps women from owning what they really want
05:56 - Divorce, rebirth, and choosing dominatrix work on purpose
07:01 - Dominatrix work as ancient temple priestess knowledge
08:45 - Priestesses as embodied, reverent, and fully in their power
09:40 - What reverence and boundaries looked like in the temple
10:39 - The sensual, abundant imagery of temple life
11:26 - Patriarchal attempts to erase goddess worship and feminine power
13:20 - The devaluing of the wise woman and crone archetype
15:53 - Systemic suppression of feminine knowledge and sacred spaces
17:23 - Rebuilding temple energy through women’s communities and mystery-school work
18:18 - What she learned in domination school versus what was missing spiritually
19:56 - Modern Doms as embodiments of ancient priestess energy
21:05 - Sensuality as sacred ritual rather than transactional performance
22:34 - Sensual energy as creation energy and a source of abundance
24:12 - Why shame around sex and sensuality blocks feminine power
25:22 - The descent, underworld, and rebirth process in her own life
27:23 - Energetic healing practices used in temple traditions
28:25 - The full spectrum of feminine energy: soft, harsh, nurturing, sovereign
30:20 - How dominatrix work transformed her self-worth and life
33:42 - Why embodiment matters more than role-play or performance
34:40 - The pillars of her Goddess Mythos methodology
37:01 - Introducing the Goddess Code coaching course and live coaching

38:59 - Closing thoughts on feminine mystery school embodiment and next steps

Hilary shares a powerful solo reflection on why rest is not a luxury, but a necessity. Inspired by a recent trip to the Central Coast of California, this episode explores productivity, nervous system regulation, and the conditioning that teaches women they must constantly work, give, and earn their worth. Hilary dives into the ways overwork and self-sacrifice can disconnect women from pleasure, joy, receiving, and their own well-being, while offering a deeper invitation into self-worship, boundaries, and the radical permission to rest.

Takeaways:

• Rest is not something you have to earn.
• Your worth is not measured by your productivity.
• Overwork can keep you disconnected from pleasure and receiving.
• Rest is essential for nervous system regulation and long-term well-being.
• Self-worship begins with prioritizing your own needs.
• You are allowed to choose presence, pleasure, and joy over constant productivity.
• Boundaries protect your energy and honor your worth.
• Taking care of yourself allows you to show up more fully for everyone you love.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Worshipped and the Temple of Divine Feminine Reclamation

00:56 Why Central Coast California Feels Magical and Energetically Charging

02:45 Discovering Astrocartography and Understanding Personal Energy Lines

04:14 The Worship of Productivity and Why Women Equate Worth With Work

06:05 Wanting Freedom of Time, Money, and Location Without Working While Traveling

07:31 The False Belief That Income Must Equal Hours Worked

08:52 How Overplanning and Self-Imposed Barriers Block Presence and Joy

10:14 Why Rest Is Especially Vital for Women and Caregivers

12:10 What Real Rest Looks Like When Even Meditation Feels Like Work

13:45 How Rest Regulates the Nervous System and Supports Healing

15:03 Rest as a State That Changes What You Attract and Receive

16:25 The Physical Cost of Chronic Stress, Burnout, and High Cortisol

17:22 How the World Benefits From Women Giving Energy Away for Free

19:24 Loving and Valuing Yourself Enough to Protect Your Well-Being

20:35 What Happens When You Keep Depleting Yourself for Everyone Else

21:58 Asking What You Actually Want, Beyond Everyone Else’s Expectations

22:31 Self-Worship Starts With Giving Yourself Rest

23:31 Hilary’s Past Pattern of Burnout and Being Praised for Constant Output

25:33 Boundaries, Worth, and No Longer Giving Energy Away by Default

27:20 Permission to Rest and Reject the Lie That You Must Earn It

28:11 Missing the Experience Because of Pressure to Be Productive

28:44 Closing Reminder to Rest, Be Present, and Enjoy Your Time

Resources:

Explore more from Hilary and Goddess Guidance through the Worshipped experience.

keywords: rest, feminine energy, self-worship, nervous system regulation, productivity, burnout, self-worth, women and rest, pleasure, abundance, boundaries, divine feminine, cortisol, healing, receiving, overgiving, self-care, nervous system healing

In this episode, Hillary explores the depths of feminine power, shame, and the path to embodying true worth and leadership. An inspiring conversation about breaking societal conditioning, embracing your darkness, and awakening your divine feminine energy.

This episode dives deep into feminine empowerment, shadow work, and spiritual awakening through personal stories and archetypal symbolism. It’s a call to embrace your dark edges, rewrite conditioning, and step into your full divine power.

Key Topics

• Hillary’s personal journey through transformation, divorce, and awakening during COVID-19 (timestamps 10:00-14:00)
• The concept of self-worship, sacred leadership, and embracing the dark feminine (timestamps 0:07-5:42)
• Challenging societal conditioning that makes women feel unworthy and small (timestamps 4:21-7:28)
• The power dynamics of women in leadership and the societal demonization of feminine strength (timestamps 21:42-27:23)
• How embodying the archetype of the dominatrix symbolizes confidence, power, and self-worth (timestamps 17:00-32:16)
• The spiritual and energetic significance of dark goddesses like Lilith, Kali, and Hecate (timestamps 20:55-25:49)
• Practical tools and programs to reconnect with your divine feminine energy, such as The Goddess Code (timestamps 42:58-43:55)
• Hillary’s insights on visualization, energy, and manifesting a life beyond limitations (timestamps 39:34-41:15)

• 00:07 - Welcome to Worshiped: reclaiming feminine power and sacred leadership
• 01:06 - The evolution of the podcast and darkness as a higher expression
• 02:05 - The concept of worshipping yourself and universal reverence
• 03:23 - Worthiness and deserving pleasure without guilt
• 04:21 - Society’s conditioning to please and adhere to masculine norms
• 05:42 - Challenging the deep conditioning against natural feminine flow
• 07:58 - Personal stories of external validation and realization of self-worth
• 10:00 - COVID as a catalyst for deep rebirth and awakening
• 15:21 - Fascination with dominatrices as symbols of confidence and power
• 17:33 - Embracing feminine sensuality, shame, and societal perceptions
• 20:55 - Dark goddesses as archetypes of power and independence
• 27:23 - The transformative journey into becoming a professional dominatrix
• 32:16 - Embodying Lilith and integrating power into all aspects of life
• 39:34 - Manifesting dreams and creating a reality better than imagined
• 42:53 - The importance of mentorship and programs like The Goddess Code

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Hilary shares her transformative journey from celibacy and self-discovery to manifesting a divine masculine connection that aligns with her deepest desires. This episode explores the power of embodying your full self, setting clear feelings and intentions, and trusting the divine timing of your manifestations.

Takeaways:

You can manifest what you deeply feel and envision.

Never settle for less than you deserve.

Feelings are the key to manifesting your desires.

Trust divine timing and stay aligned with your worth.

Full self-expression attracts the right partner.

Chapters

00:00 Embracing the Goddess Within

00:41 Journey of Self-Discovery and Celibacy

04:25 Setting Boundaries and Knowing Worth

10:30 Manifesting Divine Connections

15:49 The Power of Being Your Full Self

20:58 The Reality of Manifestation and Worthiness

Resources:

Free Guide: https://shop.goddessguidanceofficial.com/The-Goddess-Code-Free-Guide

The Goddess Code: https://shop.goddessguidanceofficial.com/the-goddess-code-860436

keywords: self-love, manifestation, divine masculine, feminine energy, empowerment, relationships, vision board, divine timing

In this conversation, Elodie Pavot shares her transformative journey of self-discovery following her divorce. She discusses the importance of embracing feminine energy, navigating relationships, and the role of human design and gene keys in understanding oneself. Elodie emphasizes the need for balance between masculine and feminine energies, the significance of self-care, and the power of trusting oneself. Through her experiences, she aims to empower other women to make courageous decisions and prioritize their happiness.

Takeaways:

Elodie's journey of self-discovery began after her divorce.

Embracing feminine energy is crucial for personal growth.

Navigating relationships requires understanding one's own needs.

Human design and gene keys provide insights into personal strengths.

Balancing masculine and feminine energies leads to fulfillment.

Self-care practices can be simple yet effective.

Trusting your intuition is essential for making decisions.

Sharing personal stories can inspire others to take action.

Starting small with self-care can lead to significant changes.

Life can be magical even in its normalcy.

Chapters:

00:00 Journey of Self-Discovery Post-Divorce

02:40 Embracing Feminine Energy and Power

05:42 Navigating Relationships and Personal Growth

08:09 The Role of Human Design and Gene Keys

11:08 Balancing Masculine and Feminine Energies

13:53 Finding Joy and Connection in Life

16:39 Lessons Learned and Moving Forward

19:26 Empowering Other Women Through Experience

22:15 Self-Care and Grounding Practices

24:57 The Importance of Trusting Yourself

27:42 Final Thoughts and Inspirations

Keywords: self-discovery, feminine energy, personal growth, relationships, human design, gene keys, empowerment, self-care, balance, trust

This beautiful conversation with Rose Gibson explores the daily challenges faced by mothers, particularly focusing on the struggles of business ownership, sanity, and managing it all. It emphasizes the importance of reframing these challenges into positive experiences, and to find ways to step into your feminine in motherhood. Exploring the ways women feel isolated in motherhood, and how to create and support women in community.

You can connect with Rose on her website at https://www.babybeats.co.uk/ or Instagram www.instagram.com/babybeatsuk

You can find her book (I'm Fine The Truth About Becoming a Mum (that No ONE warns you about) on Amazon here: https://www.amazon.com/Im-Fine-Truth-About-Becoming/dp/1917380216/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2DPOAV2M2LI4C&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.vK0l-Dn-VW6XQWrgznI1FtXQ4vdhWJvJFUJqUq6Ve1w.XeLQYvGhUDZ_YQTbVCaDpeFxATS55HIrn5DjAFNHIWM&dib_tag=se&keywords=im+fine+rose+gibson&qid=1772075583&sprefix=im+fine+rose+gibson%2Caps%2C188&sr=8-1

Takeaways:

Parenting often involves juggling multiple responsibilities.

It's common to feel overwhelmed by daily tasks.

Reframing challenges can lead to a more positive outlook.

Finding humor in parenting struggles can be beneficial.

Support from others is crucial in parenting.

Acknowledging small victories can boost morale.

Creating a routine can help manage chaos.

Self-care is important for parents.

Communication with partners can ease stress.

Embracing imperfections is part of parenting.

Keywords: parenting, daily challenges, positive reframing, motherhood, family dynamics, feminine, women in business, motherhood and business, isolation, community

In this enlightening conversation, Hilary Burton and Julie Matye explore the transformative journey of healing and empowerment, particularly through the lens of trauma-informed care. Julie shares her personal experiences that led her to become a trauma-informed coach, emphasizing the importance of emotional regulation, self-awareness, and the connection between the body and emotions. They discuss the challenges of motherhood, the significance of being present, and the courage it takes to pivot in life. The conversation highlights practical tools for healing, the role of spirituality, and the necessity of understanding one's emotional capacity in fostering healthy relationships.You can connect with Julie at www.instagram.com/juliematye83Takeaways:Hilary introduces the concept of feminine empowerment and self-love.Julie shares her journey into trauma-informed care and coaching.Motherhood can trigger unresolved childhood trauma.Emotional capacity is crucial for effective caregiving.Self-awareness is key to personal transformation.Trauma-informed coaching helps individuals understand their past.Somatic practices connect the body and emotions for healing.Presence and mindfulness are essential for joy and connection.Pivoting in life requires courage and self-trust.Healing is a long-term process that involves daily practices.

Chapters:00:00 Introduction to Empowerment and Healing04:32 Julie’s Journey into Trauma-Informed Care08:59 The Impact of Motherhood on Personal Growth13:38 Understanding Trauma and Emotional Regulation18:18 The Role of Somatic Practices in Healing22:54 Navigating Symptoms and Personal Awareness24:49 Navigating Emotional Processing27:54 Empowering Women Through Body Connection32:14 Finding Joy in the Present36:05 The Courage to Pivot40:43 Healing Through Shared Experiences45:36 Mindfulness and Daily PracticesKeywords: women empowerment, trauma-informed care, emotional healing, motherhood, self-awareness, somatic practices, personal growth, coaching, mental health, emotional regulation

In this enlightening conversation, Hilary Burton and Larissa Russell explore the journey of embracing feminine power, creativity, and self-care in the entrepreneurial space. They discuss the importance of shifting from a masculine to a feminine energy approach in business, the significance of collaboration over competition, and the need for women to value themselves and their work. The dialogue emphasizes the necessity of rest, creativity, and self-awareness, while also addressing the societal pressures that women face. Ultimately, the conversation serves as a call to action for women to reclaim their power and embrace their authentic selves.

To connect with Larissa, visit https://www.heartcentered.academy/all

Takeaways:

Embracing feminine power is essential for personal and professional growth.

Creativity is a vital source of energy and self-expression.

Women often undervalue themselves and their work in business.

Rest and self-care are not luxuries; they are necessities.

Collaboration among women can lead to greater success than competition.

Tracking energy and cycles can help women understand their productivity patterns.

The stories we tell ourselves can limit our potential; it's important to challenge them.

Self-awareness is crucial for navigating the challenges of entrepreneurship.

Women experience seasonal cycles in their energy and creativity.

Valuing oneself is key to thriving in business.

Chapters:

00:00 Embracing Feminine Power

02:42 Larissa's Journey to Empowerment

05:23 The Shift from Masculine to Feminine Energy

08:10 Creativity as a Source of Energy

11:10 Tools for Rest and Self-Care

14:04 The Ripple Effect of Self-Care

16:49 The Collective Feminine Awakening

19:33 Collaboration Over Competition

22:25 Valuing Yourself in Business

25:07 The Importance of Self-Awareness

28:03 Shifting Stories and Perspectives

30:51 Finding Balance in Business

33:35 Tapping into Seasonal Energies

36:35 Tracking Your Energy and Cycles

39:27 Rituals for Creativity and Rest

Keywords: feminine power, women's empowerment, creativity, self-care, collaboration, business, energy, self-awareness, cycles, rest

In this enlightening conversation, Hilary Burton and Leah Tarleton delve into the realms of holistic wellness, sensitivity, and the intricate relationship women have with food. Leah, a registered dietitian and founder of The Nourished Sensitive, shares her journey of discovering her sensitivity and how it shaped her practice. They explore the nine elements of nourishment that encompass mind, body, and spirit, emphasizing the importance of a holistic approach to health. The discussion also touches on ancestral healing, the impact of societal conditioning on women's relationships with food, and the balance of feminine and masculine energies. Leah provides insights into visioning and intention-setting as powerful tools for personal growth, encouraging listeners to connect with their intuition and embrace their unique journeys toward empowerment.

You can connect with Leah at www.nourishedsensitive.com and her podcast, "The Nourished Sensitive Podcast", https://substack.nourishedsensitive.com/podcast.

Takeaways:

Leah Tarleton emphasizes the importance of holistic wellness that includes mind, body, and spirit.

The nine elements of nourishment are crucial for sensitive individuals to thrive.

Women of all backgrounds struggle with their relationship with food due to societal conditioning.

Ancestral healing can release burdens carried through generations.

Mindful eating practices help individuals reconnect with their bodies and appetites.

The balance of feminine and masculine energies is essential for personal empowerment.

Visioning and intention-setting are powerful tools for personal growth.

Community support is vital in the journey of self-discovery and healing.

Self-awareness and intuition guide individuals toward their desired changes.

The journey of healing is ongoing and requires compassion and patience.

Chapters:

00:00 Navigating Podcasting Challenges

02:31 Introduction to Holistic Wellness

04:53 The Journey to Sensitivity Awareness

07:46 The Nine Elements of Nourishment

10:18 The Relationship Between Women and Food

13:01 Mindfulness and Embodiment in Eating

15:36 Ancestral Healing and Its Impact

20:57 Transformative Experiences in Healing

21:42 Exploring Ancestral Trauma and Healing

24:30 The Divine Feminine and Masculine Energies

31:04 Visioning and Emotional Health

38:17 The Power of Intention and Community

Keywords: holistic wellness, sensitivity, nourishment, women's health, ancestral healing, feminine energy, masculine energy, mindfulness, personal growth, empowerment