What do you do when they move on before you posting the new relationship, changing their status, and smiling like you were never there?

In this honest and gentle episode, Tammy speaks to the sting of watching someone you loved move on with someone else. She starts with a loving disclaimer for those whose hearts are still raw, then offers a fresh perspective for those ready to hear it: their new relationship is not a report card on your worth, and it might actually be your head start into healing.

Through real talk and God’s truth, Tammy shares:

• Why some people always move on quickly and why it’s not about you

• How to stop reopening the wound by watching their every move

• Why you shouldn’t wait around for someone God is still “reconstructing”

• How heartbreak can be the very thing God uses to pull you out of what you’d never leave on your own

• How to focus on your own growth, peace, and purpose instead of their timeline

She also closes with a powerful prayer over your heart and a reminder that there is life and love after this.

If you’ve ever wondered, “Did I mean anything at all?” after they moved on, this episode is for you.

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🎵 “She’s Over You” – by Tammy Michelle Simmons, on all streaming platforms.

Sometimes the dream God gave you feels like a blank coloring page full of tiny, overwhelming details and no clear picture of how it’s all supposed to come together.

In this late-night episode, Tammy shares how God spoke to her while she was coloring a warrior princess. What started as a complicated, empty page slowly turned into a clear vision as she kept going one color, one section at a time. That simple moment became a powerful reminder of how God works with our plans, dreams, and purpose.

In this episode, we talk about:

• Why you often won’t see the full vision at the beginning

• The importance of support and how it can come from unexpected places

• Being careful who you share your ideas with so they don’t poke holes in your plan

• How God gives you instructions and “utensils” step by step, not all at once

• Letting go of the pressure to figure out the “how” and choosing to just start

Recorded at 1:26 a.m. with a sick child, 2% battery, and a heart full of obedience, this episode is your reminder that God will give you just enough strength, power, and clarity to do what He’s asking you to do if you’ll move your feet and trust Him with the rest.

If this blessed you, there are over 340+ more episodes waiting for you.
You can also find more encouragement through Tammy’s books and music, including her song “It Won’t Always Be Like This,” on your favorite platforms.

In this episode, I share the heart behind my song “Missing You Out Loud” as I navigate the first year since my dad’s passing and the loss of my brother just four months before. I talk about the tension between faith and grief, what church culture doesn’t always prepare us for, and how I’m learning to honor them while choosing to keep living. If you’re missing someone you love and trying to make sense of it all, this conversation is for you.

After impulsively cutting off all my hair, I realizes it wasn’t just a haircut it was a reset. In this episode, I shares how God used that moment to reveal the indecision I've been carrying on the top of my head and in my heart, and how He’s inviting me to grow my hair and my life from a place of love instead of self-criticism. I talk about healing my relationship with my hair, reclaiming tools like her sewing machine, and recognizing when it’s time to start over with a new mindset.

If you’re in a season where you know something has to change your habits, your circle, your thoughts, or even how you see your own gifts this episode will help you give yourself permission to reset.I also shares a gentle push to stop hiding what God put in you, stop being afraid to “sell” what you carry, and remember: your gifts aren’t meant to sit on a shelf.

When the New Year’s fireworks finally became visible from my house, I ran to the window like a little kid. My daughter was downstairs dancing with her headphones on, and as I kept calling her to come see, I started heading down the stairs to get her. That’s when God stopped me and showed me: as I was trying to make sure she didn’t miss the fireworks, I was the one missing them.

In this episode, I talk about what that moment taught me about people-pleasing, stepping in front of trains for everyone else, burnout from always “showing up,” and why you are not anyone’s savior. We’ll get into algorithm pressure, guilt around resting, the Player One analogy, motherhood, and finally seeing your own worth. This year, we’re not missing our own fireworks trying to drag people who are perfectly content where they are.

In this podcast episode, I give you some encouraging words to hopefully comfort you through this time. It's not easy going through this time without your loved one, but know that they are with you and that they love you.

As I was cooking a sirloin steak, I realized one piece wasn’t done yet and if I left it in with the rest, the whole thing would’ve burned. That moment turned into a reminder: some things, and some people, can’t go with you in this next season. I also share a dream where people either ran, warned, or wasted time in the “club” thinking they had more time. This episode is your reminder: God is moving. It’s time to be separated.

Before we talk about healing, growth, or what’s next, this episode is a pause for encouragement.

If you find yourself wanting to go back to what’s familiar… if things don’t go the way you expected… if you feel tired before the journey even begins this episode is for you.

This is a reminder that you’re not doing this in your own strength. You’re moving forward by the grace of God. Missteps don’t disqualify you, and setbacks don’t erase progress.

Before we get started, let’s breathe, reset, and remember you’re not walking this out alone.

Survival taught you how to get through but it also taught you habits you were never meant to keep.

In this episode, I open up about people-pleasing, over-giving, and trying to earn love just to feel safe. I share how being “too nice,” giving too much in relationships, and even using my creativity as a way to prove my worth became part of my survival mode.

I also talk candidly about obedience how holding onto what feels comfortable, even good things, can quietly keep us from what God is calling us to do. This episode is about letting go, telling the truth, and recognizing when survival is no longer serving you.

This is part one of a healing series.

Next up: You Survived… Now What?

If you’ve ever felt like you had to earn love this one is for you.

Love Yourself First is a reminder to pour back into you.

In this episode, I talk about the importance of loving yourself with the same care, patience, and compassion you so freely give to others. We explore what it looks like to show up for yourself, to give yourself grace, and yes—even to give yourself a hug when life feels heavy. This is your permission slip to slow down, soften, and choose yourself without guilt.