In this episode of Queer Talker, Ben Cicchetti sits down with model, writer and asexuality advocate Yasmin Benoit for a powerful conversation about identity, visibility, and challenging assumptions.

Yasmin shares what it really means to be asexual, breaking down common misconceptions and explaining the difference between sexual attraction, libido, and how people experience identity.  

She opens up about growing up feeling different, being labelled by others before she had the language to define herself, and how discovering the term “asexual” both resonated and created new challenges due to a lack of representation.  

The conversation explores the reality of representation, from the stereotypes often associated with asexuality to why the community is still in its “early stages” compared to broader LGBTQ+ visibility. Yasmin also shares how her work as a model has challenged people’s expectations of what asexuality “looks like”, and why that contrast has made her both visible and controversial.  

They also discuss intersectionality, the unique experience of being a Black asexual woman, and the barriers that still exist both within and outside LGBTQ+ spaces.

This is an honest, insightful and often eye-opening conversation that challenges assumptions and expands understanding.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Queer Panic Round

04:26 Nostalgia and Childhood Reflections

07:31 Understanding Asexuality

10:33 Personal Journey to Asexuality

13:39 Navigating Identity and Representation

16:45 Challenging Stereotypes of Asexuality

18:57 Asexuality in Mainstream Media

23:40 Controversial Representation and Identity

30:43 Intersectionality and Asexuality

33:46 Navigating Online Hate and Advocacy

36:46 Advice to Younger Self and LGBTQIA+ Youth

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