It's very common for households where abuse is occurring for there to also be rigid rules about how things "should" be done, standards that one is expected to live up to (or else face painful consequences), along with shaming and punishment when failures or mistakes occur.
We integrate a message of "I am not good enough" as a result and in our adult lives can become the source of demanding perfection.
Let's reparent ourselves and give ourselves what we deserved in the first place - compassion and grace!
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Year of the Inner Child: Pressure

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Did you know that extending exhalations leads to "longer parasympathetic (relaxation response) activation? Well indeed it does --- and that's a helpful thing to know, because that means we can use prolonged exhalation to help ground and self-soothe.
Follow along and practice this 5-5-8-2 Breath technique and see if you notice a difference when you slow down your exhale!
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5-5-8-2 Breath: The Power of Exhalation

Did you know that throughout your day, each nostril "takes turns being open or stuffy, and this is related to brain activity"?!
In this Balanced Brain Breath practice, we balance activation of the two hemispheres of the brain by alternating breathing through one nostril at a time.
Try it out!
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Balanced Brain Breathing

This 5-Count Breath Technique I share with you today incorporates counting and visualization as a way to support the breathing practice and helps you stay focused, so you can reap all of the deep benefits of breathing from the diaphragm.
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5 Count Breathing to Reduce Stress

If you have difficulty breathing slowly, deeply, or run out of breath too soon, the ocean can be your guide to help you lengthen your breath and intensify the relaxation response. This Ocean Breath technique is accomplished by constricting the epiglottis (the epi-what?! - yeah, me too, totally learned some anatomy here!).
Check out this guided breathing exercise --- and feel the calming, soothing sensations!
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Do you struggle to take deep breaths?

Do you know the 3 poses that most support diaphragmatic breathing? Well, I'm here to share them with you! Breathing through the diaphragm helps us to activate the vagus nerve, which stimulates the relaxation response.
This type of breathing will help you come out of states of activation, but it's also a great practice to incorporate into your day to day to strengthen and nurture your nervous system.
Let me know which of the 3 poses you liked the most!!
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Year of the Inner Child: Pressure

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