In today’s episode we interview Jasper. He's a 32 years old interior design enthusiast trying to make it in LA.

Hosts: Noah Scott and Meesh Hindle
Guest: Jasper

Timestamped Episode Highlights:

• [00.28] – Introduction to the show and guest
• [01:39] -  His experience as gay just because that's where the most vulnerable, and finding a partner that he wants to share all of that with.
• [02.02] – Have a bond not necessarily over relationships, but what it looks like to be polyamorous 
• [03.15] – Why he considers himself a deceptive introvert. Jaspers describes himself as very much an outgoing people person and love knowing people's history, even calls himself anthological a lot just 
• [04.46] –  The skills to develop genuine connection with people. Something that's not forced, something that's not pretend. Which is kind of what he is finding the most hardship within dating right now.
• [05:29] - Important to having someone that you can speak to and talk to comfortably and not worry about talking too much, if you are talking too much and not worry about having to force the conversation 
• [06.37] –  Discussion regarding flirtatious nature and put out that sexual nature just to feel it out. Why it is precious to him, because it's so rare to just happen across it,
• [07:29] -  Do you find that the sex is better if you've had that chance to show your real self and that vulnerability?
• [08:39] - How it is unrealistic to believe that we can be everything for each other. Like it just, it had nothing to do in monogamy because I'm not talking cautious decision making as far as like commitments 
• [10.21] –Could have made my relationship with that partner, Ian and healthier if I had sought somewhere else for those needs without guilt and without shame.
• [13:39] - What's the wildest fetish that you've ever encountered?
• [15.53] – What kind of advice would you have for people that are of the same grain that are struggling to make those kinds of connections, especially in a place like LA, which is so superficial.

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