Summary

In this episode, Matt and Maria dig into the importance of and difference between growth and change in a relationship. They emphasize the need for submission and selflessness (oooof those words scare ya don't they?!), as well as aligning individual purposes with the purpose of the relationship. They also explore the difference between optimization and high performance in a culture that idolizes high performers.  If you want to actually GROW through this current season of your relationship and not just act like it, this episode is the one for you.

 

Takeaways

Growth and change are essential in a relationship, and it requires intentional effort.

Submission and selflessness are key to navigating growth as a couple.

Aligning individual purposes with the purpose of the relationship is crucial for unity.

Optimization, rather than high performance, leads to sustainable and fruitful relationships.

 

Topics

00:00 Introduction and Reintroduction

02:16 Growth and Change

07:02 Submission and Selflessness

09:22 Defining Purpose

13:01 Healthy Communication

21:22 Aligning Purpose

25:37 Sustainability and Fruitfulness

30:26 Prioritizing the Unit

34:02 Wrap-up and Battle Round

 

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