Sometimes we want to give up because of what we have been through; the losses, the hurt etc but I want to remind you that we have a faithful God, our Lord Jesus Christ who is able to redeem you of your lost years, give you a new joy for the pains you have suffered. Now is not the time for you to give up but to trust God: Hebrew 10:35 throw not away your confidence for it will be richly recompensed.