In Episode 25 of Read the Damn Book, host Michelle Glogovac sits down with author, speaker, and leadership strategist Tara Jaye Frank to discuss her powerful book You Are Before the World. Tara opens up about her journey through motherhood, career evolution, and personal growth, exploring what it means to reclaim self-worth, set boundaries, and release the emotional labor often carried by helpers and caretakers.

The conversation dives into Tara’s writing process, the importance of authentic connection, and how partnership and communication shape both personal relationships and leadership. Tara also shares insights into her upcoming documentary film, 92: The Silent Revolt, which examines the collective experience of Black women in the aftermath of the 2016 election and the ongoing fight for visibility, sovereignty, and systemic change.

This episode is a compelling exploration of identity, leadership, and empowerment—encouraging listeners to prioritize themselves, honor their voices, and step fully into their power.

What We're Talking About...

• You Are Before the World reinforces the importance of self-prioritization without guilt.
• True fulfillment comes not from what we do, but from what we place our trust in.
• Helpers and caregivers often carry the emotional burden of others’ expectations and perceptions.
• Cultivating self-worth is essential for mental health, leadership, and overall well-being.
• Writing and creative expression can be powerful tools for personal growth and transformation.
• Healthy partnerships are necessary to create balance in relationships, careers, and family life.
• Open and honest communication is critical for navigating challenges together.
• Reclaiming personal sovereignty is a vital act of self-care and boundary-setting.
• The documentary 92: The Silent Revolt explores the collective experience of Black women after the 2016 election.
• Burnout is harmful and must be acknowledged and addressed at both individual and community levels.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Background

05:51 Lessons from Maya Angelou

09:47 The Journey of Self-Discovery

13:53 Navigating Motherhood and Expectations

18:41 The Importance of Partnership

23:02 The Title and Theme of the Book

26:55 The 92 Project Film Discussion

31:31 The Power of Trust and Authenticity

32:01 Celebrating Black Women's Stories and Experiences

Links Mentioned

Tara Jaye Frank's website: http://www.tarajayefrank.com/books

The 92 Project: https://www.ikoni.org/92-project