We do it constantly — take a mood, a moment, or a memory and turn it into who we are. "I'm an anxious person." "This is just how my life goes." "That's who they are." In this talk and discussion from the Columbus sangha, Joe explores the Buddhist concept of reification — the very human habit of freezing what is fluid — and what the tradition has to say about why it leads to suffering, and how practice can help us loosen our grip. Drawing on Kalupahana's reading of early Buddhist philosophy, this conversation weaves together the five aggregates, non-self, and sitting meditation into something practical and immediately recognizable. If you've ever noticed that the story you're telling about yourself might be more constructed than it seems, this one's for you.