"You are not that important to be acting this way." True wisdom from my wife. A woman who can hold a man down from floating away into the abyss of wrong attitudes, communication, or decision making. My wife has challenged me to consistently evaluate, calculate and act upon the type of man I was always supposed to be. A Godly leader will create standards and limitations that guard the mind and tongue. Theater is not the role of a leader, it is their ability to live out the best parts of who they are.