Do you have standards and non-negotiables? Do you actually value those standards? Well, before you answer those questions, if you constantly find yourself in romantic and plutonic connections with people who don’t value you or respect you in the way that you want and deserve to be valued. If you find yourself constantly in a battle with the people around you that you’ve allowed into your heart and energy. Fighting to get them to understand and respect who you are, how you feel and who you are striving to become. Then allow me to introduce to you the reason why you shouldn’t blame them, and instead allow that accountability for you experiencing that situation with that person, to fall on you. In order to get yourself out of the annoying and possibly traumatic cycle of unknowledgeable self sabotage, you must first acknowledge that you dictate the outcome of your reality as much as the people who you allow in it. This is how to not waste your time with a person you don’t really align with. Press play and you’ll learn how to take control of the outcome of your relationships and circumstances. And we begin from the root.