People who argue with you are presenting you with the thoughts you believe. We know it seems as if you believe opposite thoughts, but really--what's the difference? All of the opposing thoughts are about an illusion, not a reality. Look a little deeper, though. Let's say that someone is adamantly insisting that the world is flat. They are insisting that the world is a shape and that it is real. This is what you believe. You can stop a moment with this. The only things you can argue about are illusions that you believe are real. When you step back, you can release out of this.

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