Making a case for not having to be controversial with your content.

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You can hold your cards close.

Hi I'm Brian Pombo, welcome back to Brian J. Pombo Live.

Yesterday, we talked about the benefits of sharing, and specifically in content marketing. So if you're putting things out there on a regular basis, it's good to share, it's good to be able to show who you really are, and appear more human, whether you are or you aren't.

And that's all good but there's also a benefit to holding back.

Let me get into this is this isn't discussed very often. So. I think oftentimes, people tend to hold back initially when it comes to politics, sex, religion, you know, kind of the taboo areas, as people don't want to offend.

That's all fine and good but eventually, you get to the point where you don't care about offending too much. But then you got to think Okay, so what should I say and what should I say?

For me, I could just give you an example from my perspective, because I've been doing content marketing in terms of ongoing daily videos and podcasts.

Now for, you know, we're close to 900 consecutive videos that we put out there. And the one thing that I found over and over again, is that just because you're being controversial, doesn't mean you're achieving anything, okay.

You can achieve some shock, you can push away people, you don't want to work with it, do it intentionally, though, don't just say things just to say things unless you just want to be working with people who think identically to you in politics, religion, and everything else.

That's the way I see it, because I would be happy to work with somebody that's very different from me politically, that's very different from me religiously, that's very different from me, and how I view sex and everything else. And honestly, I love talking about those things, especially with someone that's open.

It's not the first thing I talk about when I walk into a room of strangers. I want to know where people are coming from first before I lead on where I'm coming from. And I will be mainly for the point of communication, it's because I will say something a little bit differently if I know that they're coming from a different perspective, not that I'm worried about offending them, not that I'm worried about.

Not that I'm worried about showing myself for who I am, or anything of that sort. It mainly comes to communication with me. And I want to be able to communicate directly with people.

The more I know about other people first, the easier it is for me to communicate with them and I think most people appreciate that. So I'm careful. I don't lay it all out there. I say a lot of things that most people wouldn't say when I do say things that may be controversial. I do a purposefully. I do it with a little bit of forethought.

And at least for the most part, every once in a while I'm sure I'm saying something that it Well, I'll tell you the truth.

Some of my most controversial videos were completely unintentional, I had no idea. There were certain controversies that existed. And all you got to do is look at some of my highest-rated videos.

And you can see these huge arguments that came about or attempted arguments, people trying to put me in my place. And I normally won't join in on it, especially if that wasn't my point.

So a lot of times, I'll bring up something that has controversy attached to it.