You can have all the vision boards, routines, and goals in the world—but if your nervous system doesn’t feel safe, none of it will stick.

In this episode of The Happy Stack Podcast, I unpack why your body’s need for safety will always override your brain’s drive for success.

We’ll dive into how chronic stress, perfectionism, and overachievement rewire your nervous system to equate worth with productivity—and how to start breaking that pattern.

I’ll walk you through simple, science-backed ways to calm your body, align your goals with regulation, and finally create change that lasts.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode: 

You can’t build sustainable success on a dysregulated foundation

Your nervous system prioritizes familiarity, not success

High-functioning dysregulation looks like overworking, snapping at your team, people-pleasing, or fidgeting during downtime

Reactivity is often a nervous system issue—not a character flaw

Five practical shifts to rewire for calm and progress:

Start with safety, not strategy

Create micro-safe cues throughout your day

Use the 5% edge to stretch without triggering stress

Track success through regulation, not results

Ritualize your wind-down to teach your body closure

Links and Resources:

Follow Terri-Ann Richards: https://terriannrichards.com/

The Happy Stack Newsletter: https://happystack.substack.com/

Success Takes Courage Book: https://www.amazon.com.au/Success-Takes-Courage-Inside-Out-Achievement-ebook/dp/B0BKWNT142

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Remember—regulation isn’t slowing down your success, it’s what makes it sustainable.