Vengeance is never man's responsibility, so stay clear of it. The offense will come but how you handle it goes a long way to determine the outcome and subsequent relationship. Stop being judgemental on the errors of others but help them to do the right thing. Your decision not to judge others starts from the decision to forgive offenses. Turn every cheat and hurt to the Lord. Let God always have His ways in your life. If you are in a privileged position, don't exert vengeance done to you previously. Joseph looked away and let go. Don't assume the place of God because you are angry