So many thoughts and questions arise when talking with Spencer. He was betrayed a few times in a row with women that brought out extreme opposite sides of himself.

He took time to recover after his second break up and found himself wounded again in an unexpected way. Through his trials, he discovered ways to accept - what is and let go of - the idea of himself or the idea of what life should be.

Spencer takes us through his muck, he even confesses he smashed his x-box! It was a sign of closure and healing - listen as he shares how he has overcome his heartaches!