In this episode of The Cordial Co-Parent, I’m clearing up one of the biggest myths out there—that in order to co-parent well, you’ve gotta be best friends with your ex.

Let me go ahead and say it: you don’t need to be texting your ex's new partner memes or sending out matching Christmas cards to do this right. You just need peace, respect, and a plan that works for your child. That’s it.

I share a little bit about my own story. Yes, I’ve got pictures out there with me, my ex, and his wife all hugged up at a basketball game, but don’t let that fool you. We’re more the exception than the rule, and it took time, effort, and healing to get there. You do not need that kind of closeness to be successful.

We talk about how social media can make you feel like you're falling short, but the truth is: most good co-parents aren’t super close—they’re just consistent.

In this episode, I break down what “cordial” really means (hint: it’s not about being friends- it’s about being functional), and I share three quick, real-life tips from my Cordial Compass to help you stay grounded, gracious, and focused on your kids.

If you’ve ever felt like you’re not doing enough because your co-parenting situation doesn’t look picture-perfect, this one’s for you.