You don’t have to not be in love anymore.

You can decide that you like being in love and kick the backlog of icky stuff to the curb and start doing loving things.  Hold on for a longer kiss.  Count to 7 and melt into it.  Remember the gooey feelings you had when you first kissed.  Remember all the flutters.  Seek to feel them again and you will find them.

You can trust in Karma and decide you don’t have to hold onto his list of offenses to make sure he’s brought to justice.  You can enjoy loving him again.  You can bring back the in jokes.  You can parade by him in a spicy outfit with the assurance that if he doesn’t want what you’re bringing that’s his loss and his issue, and you can feel sorry for him rather than yourself- because now you’re taking your spicy self for a bubble bath and reading your favorite novel- because you are a queen.  And as time passes he’ll begin to wonder what’s wrong with him and want to climb aboard that cuddle bus.

If you want him to talk to you more, and you come after him with “How come you never talk to me?” How is he likely to respond?  What do you think?

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