This episode is the beginning of a series on sex as an invisible contract. What women are taught about intimacy. What they are not taught. And why that gap is not accidental.

I talk about penetration and power. About what happens energetically when a man is in an aroused state and his intent is to seek release. About why women are disbelieved when they share experiences of violation - even in consensual situations. About why sanitising these conversations does women a profound disservice.

This is not an anti-sex or anti-men conversation. It is a conversation about what women deserve to know.

In this episode:

— Why the comment "you made sex sound like a war zone" tells us exactly what the video was actually about

— Penetration, power, and why this dynamic is not neutral

— What bisexual men's conversations about intimacy reveal that heterosexual women are rarely told

— Why women are disbelieved when they share difficult experiences of intercourse — even within marriage

— The specific shift that happens energetically when a man's intent is to seek release using your body

— Why this education is not happening in homes, in religion, or in schools — and what that costs women

— What it means to reclaim dignity, safety, and pleasure as a woman on your own terms

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