Many of us spend far longer than we realise waiting for a sign before making a decision.

In this episode, I explore why indecision can feel so convincing, how rumination disguises itself as reflection, and why clarity often arrives after we choose. Drawing on psychology and old folklore traditions, we look at what it really takes to move from circling a decision to taking the next step.

If you’re standing at a crossroads right now, you might also find my short reflection At the Threshold helpful, a gentle way to explore the decision you may be circling.