You Found Her

You Found Her

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  • Not a goodbye, but a see you soon 🥲

    E32: In this final episode of You Found Her (for now), I’m sharing something tender and true: why I’m pressing pause on the podcast—and why it’s actually an evolution, not an ending. Over the last year, this show has been the heartbeat of my brand and the first brave step I ever took toward building You Found Her. But as I reconnect with my own soul, my writing, and the deeper 1:1 work that lights me up, I’m being pulled toward a new season of creation.

    I’ll also be sharing:

    • Why I’m returning home to my identity as a writer and letting that lead everything I build next.
     • How The Artist’s Way, Big Magic, and recovering from burnout clarified my next right steps and re-oriented me toward my North Star.
     • Why the podcast no longer aligns with the work calling me forward—and how that decision supports deeper connection with you.
     • What’s coming next: my book, my 1:1 guidance offer, and future YFH retreats in Italy for ambitious women seeking reconnection and clarity.
     • How you can stay closely connected through my newsletter, Instagram, and future intimate containers.

    If you want to stay in the loop (and you know I want that too), here’s where to find me:
    ✨ My newsletter, The Ambitious Soul — weekly letters, essays, and early chapters from my book: http://subscribepage.io/wBTEvO
    ✨ Instagram — DM me that you’re a podcast listener so I can keep you in my inner YFH circle: https://www.instagram.com/lindsaykami
    ✨ 1:1 guidance — limited founding spots opening soon.
    ✨ Future retreats — I’m attending my first women’s retreat soon to learn & shape the YFH retreat experience for you.


    Thank you for listening, trusting, and walking with me.


    This is not goodbye. The episodes will stay up—as a free course, a companion, a hand to hold whenever you need it 💛

    14 min
  • The way out of comparison and into peace (Best Of)

    This week, I discuss one of my greatest, most shameful struggles across my 20s -- comparison. This Best Of episode is one of my most downloaded for a reason: for us ambitious minds, it's almost impossible to not be aware of how and what everyone else is doing in our field. 

    Today, we’re going to unpack the REAL reason why you may be comparing yourself, and how we can learn to compare from a place of peace instead of anxiety.


    I will also talk about…

    • The biggest comparison crisis of my 20s
    • The ways comparison might actually be “serving” you (for better or worse)
    • What my most anxious comparative thoughts have taught me
    • Social comparison theory 
    • The 4 steps that have helped me heal most around comparison


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    31 min
  • How to secure the validation you ACTUALLY want (Best Of)

    In this Best Of episode (a revisit of the very first episode of You Found Her — one of my most popular episodes, and the one I personally needed to revisit this week), I discuss the career crisis that inspired me to create both my pod and my personal brand. Spoiler alert… it was a validation crisis.

    We’ll get real about the fear behind validation-seeking and how to find comfort when anxiety pushes us to look outside ourselves for worth. I also share...

    • How to find peace during a validation-seeking panic
    • My journey as a writer in Hollywood
    • How to move from scarcity mindset to abundance
    • 5 strategies on how to self-generate the validation we need 
    • Why the pod is called You Found Her
    • Why you deserve to heal (even more than you deserve to be successful)


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    For business: [email protected] 


    35 min
  • When nothing is working, ask the universe for these 3 things for clarity [mini episode]

    E31: If you’ve ever been so lost, so uncertain, so out of control that you didn’t even know what to pray for — this one’s for you. Inspired by my own deeply uncomfortable week (hi, IG suspension), I’m sharing the 3 most potent, clarifying things to ask the universe when you’re at the end of your rope.

    We will also discuss:

     ✨ Why asking for your process to be removed will actually block your miracle
    ✨ How to engage in “two-way prayer” and let Love itself do the heavy lifting
    ✨ The difference between your job and God’s job (and why mixing them up creates chaos)

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     For business: [email protected]

    19 min
  • I had a relapse — addicted to hustling for my worth

    E30: Have you ever chased success or validation like a drug — only to feel the high vanish within days, leaving you in search of the next hit? This the cycle I found myself in (again) recently, and today I’m naming it for what it is: addiction to hustling for worth.


    In this raw and deeply personal episode, I’ll unpack:

    • The six clearest signs you may be caught in this addiction too
    • Why the real question isn’t “why the hustle?” but “why the pain?”
    • The core wound that drives so many ambitious minds to seek worth outside themselves
    • My recent relapse story (and what it revealed about my own patterns)
    • The 3 spiritual reframes that snapped me out of the spiral and re-anchored me in peace, trust, and abundance

    Plus, in this week’s Found in the DMs, we’ll wrestle with a huge question: how do you define success on your own terms — not your parents’, not society’s, not anyone else’s?

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    For business: [email protected]

    27 min
  • How do I get through a dark night of the soul? (The You Found Her origin story)

    E29: Ever been through a season so heavy you couldn’t see a way forward? That hopeless, unraveling chapter is what mystics call a dark night of the soul—and if you’re human, you will face one.

    In this episode, I’m re-introducing myself through the lens of my own dark night—the lowest point of my 20s, when every plan I built for my life collapsed. What I didn’t know then is that this breaking point would become the birthplace of You Found Her and the most aligned, soul-led chapter of my life.

    ✨ And if you’re ready to not just survive your season of struggle but actually transform it into your most aligned, abundant chapter yet—sign up for the waitlist for The Ambitious Soul’s Reset Kit HERE. You’ll get first access, best pricing, and five powerful audio pep talks designed to carry you through fear into clarity and peace.

    We’ll also talk about:

    • What a “dark night of the soul” really is—and why it happens
    • Three potent spiritual reframes that carry you through despair into rebirth
    • How to see pain as proof of your capacity, not a sign you’re broken
    • The exact questions to ask yourself when you feel hopeless, lost, or ready to give up


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    For business: [email protected]

    24 min
  • When their win feels like your loss—how do you stop the spiral?

    E28: Ever seen someone land the very thing you’ve been dreaming of — the job, the relationship, the opportunity — and instantly felt like you’ve failed? You’re happy for them and you’re spiraling inside… ashamed, behind, and wondering what’s wrong with you for even feeling that way.


    You’re not crazy, and you’re not alone. In this episode, we’re unpacking why comparison cuts so deep — from ancient survival wiring to modern scarcity culture — and how to break free from the belief that someone else’s gain means you’ve lost.


    I’ll also discuss:

    • The real reason your brain sees their success as a threat (and how to retrain it)
    • Four powerful reframes that dissolve comparison at the root
    • How to turn jealousy into a roadmap for your deepest desires
    • A simple, soulful shift that makes you magnetic to your own wins

    Plus, in this week’s Found in the DMs, we’ll tackle how to overcome inferiority complex and reclaim your worth from the inside out.

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    For business: [email protected]

    21 min
  • The beauty of having a huge (but really challenging) dream

    E27: If you ever feel overwhelmed by the size of your dream,  this episode will remind you why you should feel both excited and incredibly grateful. Your dream chose you for a reason! 

    Today, I’ll unpack the 4 biggest truths I’ve learned that can turn your yearning into fuel instead of fear.

    I’ll also talk about…

    • The spiritual reason you were chosen for your dream 
    • Why yearning isn’t a curse — it’s loving information from your soul
    • The quiet privilege of even knowing what you want
    • The sacred partnership that forms when you stop chasing and start listening
    • One Found Fam listener’s powerful question: “Do some dreams have to die for others to live?”

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    For business: [email protected]

    27 min
  • Are you chasing or attracting? Why the way you want your dream matters [mini episode]

    E26: Ever feel like you’re pursuing your dream so intensely that it starts to feel more like chasing a high than following a calling? In this mini episode, we’ll unpack the subtle ways ambition can slip into anxiety and addiction—and how to shift into a calmer, magnetic energy that naturally draws your desires closer.

    I’ll also talk about…

    • What dopamine addiction has to do with your dream life
    • The identity crisis I had at 29 around success and self-worth
    • The difference between culture-driven goals and soul-led yearnings
    • Why calm is a more powerful manifestor than control
    • 3 potent mental shifts to stop hustling for your worth and start attracting from peace

    Follow on Instagram: @lindsaykami

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    For business: [email protected]


    22 min
  • What if your dream falls apart—is it still meant for you?

    E25: This week, I’m sharing a very personal, very raw career disappointment that cracked me wide open… and the 3 spiritual and emotional shifts that are helping me move through it with grace, power, and peace.


    If you’re navigating your own heartbreak—whether in career, relationships, or anything you deeply believed was meant for you—this one is for you.


    I’ll also talk about…

    • Why your soul actually wants the detours and disappointments
    • The painful wakeup call I had in my screenwriting career
    • What Kabbalah taught me about turning loss into light
    • How to know when a dream is asking to be released
    • 3 powerful mindset shifts to help you feel the pain and keep the faith

    Follow on Instagram: @lindsaykami

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    For business: [email protected]

    24 min

About You Found Her

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You Found Her is a podcast for ambitious minds seeking peace and self-love on the path to fulfilling their dreams. Every Tuesday, we will discuss how to navigate our anxieties around success, reaffirm…