In this unfiltered and hilarious episode of Peas in the Pod, hosts Shay Janae and Jay with the Ink dive deep into the complexities of modern relationships. From the chaos of going through phones and silent treatment wars to the emotional aftermath of cheating and setting boundaries, nothing is off-limits. They tackle why some men cheat down, why women hold it together better, and how entitlement shows up when folks try to “reapply” for access to someone they once had.

Expect real talk on love languages, co-parenting dynamics, the pressures of bill-paying and loyalty, and the standards we all set—but rarely follow. With their signature back-and-forth, the duo explores vulnerability, gender roles, emotional intelligence, and why communication (or lack of it) breaks so many connections. Plus, there’s plenty of laughter, southern sayings, and spicy one-liners to keep you entertained from start to finish.

Tune in and find out:

Why ugly cheating hits different

How emotional support is often more valuable than financial contributions

Whether men or women are really messier in relationships

And why some folks need to “just be cool”

Hit play, laugh hard, and maybe—just maybe—rethink how you move in your situationship.