You prayed for success. You worked for success. But nobody warned you about the invoice that comes with it. 

This week, the Aunties unpack the real weight behind “making it”: from financial expectations to emotional labor and why success can sometimes feel like a group project you didn’t sign up for.

Hosts Ki Jay, and Jo dive into the concept of the Black tax and how it uniquely impacts a person's lifestyle, career growth, and generational responsibility.

From suzus and cultural reciprocity to modern-day entitlement, we’re asking the real question: where does obligation end and boundaries begin?

What the “Black tax” really is (and what it isn’t)

Emotional labor vs. genuine support

The pressure of being “the successful one”

Suzus, collective wealth & cultural traditions

How to set boundaries without guilt

Teaching financial independence instead of dependency

Creating measured agreements with family

If you’re the “responsible” one in your family… this episode is for you.