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Forgiveness is at the essence of the Christian life. Christianity is the idea that through Jesus, God forgives our wrongs. We put our faith in Christ, and in turn, we are forgiven from our sins.Our correct standing with God is dependent on forgiving other people according to today’s scripture. Meaning- you must forgive others to be a ChristianMark 11:25 “And whenever you stand praying, if you have anything against anyone, forgive him, that your Father in heaven may also forgive you your trespasses. 26 But if you do not forgive, neither will your Father in heaven forgive your trespasses.”Huge scripture. Very important that we get this right.
Henry said- When we are at prayer, we must remember to pray for others, particularly for our enemies, and those that have wronged us; now we cannot pray sincerely that God would do them good, if we bear malice to them, and wish them ill.Understanding Biblical forgiveness is important. The worlds idea of what forgiveness is, isn’t what the Bible teaches.The Worlds idea of forgiveness is ‘forgive and forget’ but that term is never found in the Bible.Definition of ForgivenessFORGIVENESS is the intentional and voluntary process by which a victim undergoes a change in feelings and attitude regarding an offense, lets go of negative emotions such as vengefulness, with an increased ability to wish the offender well
Forgiveness is different from
CONDONING (failing to see the action as wrong and in need of forgiveness) Someone hurts you, but you don’t even see it as wrong- accepting domestic violence as a lifestyleEXCUSING (not holding the offender as responsible for the action) They are committing adultery, but I’m going to pretend I don’t know because they come home to mePARDONING (To release from punishment; exempt from penalty:) They have stolen from the company, but they still get to keep their jobFORGETTING (removing awareness of the offense from consciousness) You have repeatedly hurt me, but I have to forgive you, so I am going to pretend that nothing ever happened.RECONCILIATION (restoration of a relationship) you have hurt me deeply, but our relationship is going to be immediately exactly the same.
*In certain contexts, forgiveness is a legal term for absolving or giving up all claims on an account such as a debt, a loan, an obligation or apology.
Understanding forgiveness
Forgiveness is not natural, forgiveness is spiritual. If you are not a converted Christian, it is very difficult, if not impossible to forgive someone because you do not have the strength within yourself.If you truly understand what God has forgiven you from, it will influence what you are able to forgive. If you truly understood your forgiveness it would affect your forgiveness for othersJesus said that if you are forgiven much you would love muchColossians 3:13 bearing with one another, and forgiving one another, if anyone has a complaint against another; even as Christ forgave you, so you also must do.Alas, Forgiveness is an act of the will, to comply with the Biblical demands of it.Matt 6: 14 “For if you forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. 15 But if you do not forgive men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.We MUST forgive others! We MUST find the way to forgive others!Ephesians 4:32 And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God in Christ forgave you.
The reason that we forgive others is purely because Christ forgave us.If you’ve ever been wronged by someone, you know how hard it is to forgive someone but we MUST. Those who have hurt us, abused us, gone against us, willfully sinned against usI get it man- I harbor...