Our Culture's best advise is to follow one's heart. But that is never helpful as we have all experienced when later in regrets we ask ourselves, "What was I thinking?". That is because we easily deceive ourselves when our minds are made up about something. Of our hearts, scripture says they are deceitful above all things.How then can we make decisions better to make ourselves better? Learn to make yourself tell yourself the truth about each decision you make. You owe it to yourself.