There's no way you will ever fully understand your partner. Thinking you do or saying you do is going to backfire because it's a signal that you're done learning. I back this up with some solid brain research. Tune in to learn a new way of confronting this problem. I'm running the Men's Group again this year. You can email me at [email protected] if you want more info. You can also visit our websites for information on couples' retreats and coaching. www.brycebauer.com www.jennymorrow.com