Welcome to the very first episode of Not That Girl — the unfiltered space for real women doing real life. Today, we’re talking about the pressure to become “That Girl” — the internet’s version of perfect — and why chasing that aesthetic can leave us exhausted, insecure, and disconnected from what actually matters.

If you’ve ever tried (and failed) to copy the Pinterest-perfect routines or felt like you’re not doing enough — this one’s for you. We’ll unpack:

• Why “That Girl” is a myth (and not your goal)

• The beauty of YOUR real life (even the messy parts)

• Simple routine swaps that work for moms, busy women, and anyone in a real-life season

• How to start becoming Your Girl — the one who feels aligned, not aesthetic

You’re not broken. You’re not behind. You’re becoming.

Let’s talk about it. 💬