YoungYusef’s Podcast

In today's episode I go over what urgency means, why it's important, and how to implement it into your life. Having a sense of urgency kills procrastination, laziness, excuses, and limitations. 

In today's episode I discuss the dangers of men putting women on a pedestal. This includes women's egos becoming too large, men lowering their value without realizing it, and women losing respect for their spouse when it happens in a relationship. Men need to remember that beauty is common and not rare which is how men treat it. 

In today's episode I talk about how feminism has lied to women including telling them they don't need a man, they should focus on career instead of family, and to be more masculine instead of feminine.

In today's episode I discuss most men's issue of providing time, energy, and money to a woman while all she provides to him is sex. My message is no man should commit to a woman that can't provide any value to him other than sleeping with him. 

In today's episode I discuss why men and women are not designed biologically to be friends, why a man is wasting his time if he stays in the friendzone, and how not being clear on what you want creates drama and unnecessary stress. 

In today's episode I discuss how society has taught men for many years to lead women with money. I explain why this makes women lose respect for you, put you in the beta male provider category, and possibly take advantage of you as well. Men need to attract women with their looks, confidence, and charisma instead of their wallet.

In today's episode I talk about techniques and practices men can do to avoid being used by women. These include lowering the value of sex, asking what her motives are, and understanding the ways that women use men. "Dating currency for men is options and sex while dating currency for women is attention and validation”.

In today's episode I talk about the reality of dating single mothers. When a man with no kids dates a single mother he is cucking himself and the reality is she will never have 100% respect for him. Men with no kids need to have self love and respect so they can avoid raising another man's child or children. 

In today's episode I discuss the negative consequences of casual hookups. We all know about pregnancy scares and STD's. However, often we forget about the desire for the pleasure, the lowered feelings of self-worth/self-love, soul-ties, and worsening the relationship with God. The ego will never be satisfied with casual sex because there will always be a desire for more hookups.

In today's episode I talk about the downside of chasing women. The reality is many men can drastically improve their lives if they stop chasing women and instead only pursue women who have a burning desire for them. 

1. You look weak and desperate 

2. You lose focus on your goals, dreams, and hobbies 

3. The relationship won't go well if she doesn't have burning desire for you.

Here's the link to the business insider article: https://www.businessinsider.com/why-we-want-what-we-cant-have-2018-3#:~:text=Sometimes%20it%20can%20feel%20like,warped%20sense%20of%20their%20value.