We sometime have to stop blaming others or the World for our downfalls. It’s not fair. We are so in denial about every flaws that are within in us that we start projecting those flaws in others making it more easier to blame them for all the negativity that are going on in our lives. Like, that needs to stop. Your in denial of not accepting that you’re not perfect and always feeling the need to put up a tough personality to prove that you gat it all figured out when you don’t is a result of why you’re failing. And there is nothing wrong in admitting it, I don’t know why you think there is!